worrying about nothing

Hello Ma Petities

First I must apologize for my long absence. Your mama has been very ill and has had to have some time off

Tonight I want to talk to you about worrying about nothing. So often we women worry about things that don't matter to our men, hair, makeup, and fashion. 

We also worry about pleasing them. I know that I worry about pleasing my man quite often. even more so when I am ill, in pain, or in general having a lazy day.  I have found that quite often during those times he worries about me more than he worries about wither or not  I'm making him dinner, giving him sex, or cleaning the house. He simply wants me to feel good, be happy, and to make sure that our relationship is still strong.  He loves me so much that he would rather take care of me, comfort me, and love me than press anything on me.

I think that all of us need to trust in our loves more. We need to have faith in our relationships, believe that our loves care for us more than just what we can give them. The more we worry about pleasing them, the more we foster the seed of doubt with in our own mind.  The lack of trust we show in the ever persistent need to please can also plant seeds of doubt in our Love's mind. It also shows that we don't think that we are worthy of the love, respect, and devotion that our Love's give us. We need to believe in ourselves, believe that we are worthy.

Once we believe in ourselves I truly believe that our relationships will be stronger and better. I believe that our relationship will be enriched in amazing ways. Ladies I know how hard it is to over come the American ideal  of what is beautiful, sexy, worthy of admiration but please remember that your Love loves you for who you are, not some photo-shopped ideal on a TV screen. Try to see your self through his eyes and know that you are worthy of all the love and devotion he can give you.