Thursday, March 3, 2011

Falling in love again

Hello Ma Petities

I hope that you are welcoming the spring as a time of renewal the same way I am. As the sun comes out and the earth awakens I find that my love and passion for my honey are awakening too.

Every relationship goes through rough patches where stress, conflict, and life in general severely dampen the romance, passion and "honeymoon" love.  We all know that once that stage of a relationship is over you can't bring it back. That is true but I am here to tell you that you can have the better more mature version of it. I call it falling in love again and it really isn't hard to do but it does take effort.

You have to find a way to let your responsibilities go for a few minutes a day. take the time to be silly with your partner, to pamper them and let them pamper you, When you see something that makes that makes you think of them share it with them. Take the time each day to really look at your love and remember everything that you love about them.  Most importantly tell them every day how much you love and appreciate them.

All these things seem like such little things but we often lose the little things in the stress of everyday life. Look at your relationship. when was the last time you really looked at your partner, told them you loved them in more than just passing, laughed with them?  If it has been more than a few days for any of these you need to do some work on your relationship.

Take the time to fall in love again. Your relationship will be stronger and healthier for it.

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