Saturday, October 2, 2010

The Ex Factor

Evenin Ma Petities,

We all have have them in our relationships whether it be an amours old flame on your side or a clingy ex on his side.  Ex's can cause huge problems in a otherwise strong relationship. They cause strife, insecurity and jealousy. With a simple phone call they can ruin a romantic evening or start the day off on a sour note.  Those of us who are friends with our ex's need to remember the hurt that those friendships can unintentionally cause our loved ones and take what ever steps necessary to make them feel secure, loved and cared for.

So Here are some tips for doing just that.

Be honest with both your mate and your ex.  Let them both know exactly where your relationships with them stand.

Defend your loved one. we all have that ex that is trying to get back into our lives, who bad mouths our current loved one and dismisses our relationship with them. Do Not allow this.

Let your loved one know if you are making semi-plans with your ex. Don't let it blind side them.

Last but not least let your loved one know that no matter what the ex says you love them and have no intention of leaving them. Remind them that your ex is your ex for a reason.

Put these few tips into action and your relationships will be a hell of a lot stronger when it comes to the ex factor

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